Sermon #131                                                                                                                             John Sermons

 

            Title:                           ÒLovest Thou Me?Ó

 

            Text:                            John 21:15-17

            Reading:       Isaiah 54:1-17

            Subject:                     Love for Christ the Evidence of Faith

            Date:                          Sunday Morning—September 11, 2011

            Tape #                       John #131

Introduction:

 

This is the third, perhaps even the fourth, time that the Lord has shown Himself to Peter after His resurrection. Until now not a word had passed between them. Peter had not spoken to the Savior; and the Lord Jesus had not spoken directly to Peter. The matter of PeterÕs denial of the Lord Jesus has not been mentioned, neither by the Lord Jesus nor by Peter. How Peter must have longed to speak to his Lord privately, to confess his shame and beg forgiveness; but the Lord Jesus had not allowed it. Now Christ is alone with Peter, at some distance from the other disciples. And it is the Lord Jesus Who opens the conversation. What will He say? How will He reprove this fallen one? How will He deal with PeterÕs sin? LetÕs listen inÉ

 

(John 21:15-17) ÒSo when they had dined, Jesus saith to Simon Peter, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest (αγα¹ας) thou me more than these (more than these other disciples love Me)? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love (φιλω) thee (not in word only, but in deed and in truth; in sincerity, and without dissimulation, fervently and superlatively. —— But notice he does not say Òmore than these.Ó). He saith unto him, Feed my lambs.Ó

 

16 ÒHe saith to him again the second time, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest (αγα¹ας) thou me? (Notice that here the Savior leaves out the words, Òmore than these.Ó He saw PeterÕs heart, and observed the modesty of his answer, and would not push the matter further. He had not come to Peter to hurt him, but to help him.) He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love (φιλω) thee. (Peter expressed himself in the same language as before. It is, as if Peter said, ÒLord, what more can I say? You know that I truly love you.Ó) He saith unto him, Feed my sheep.Ó

 

17 ÒHe saith unto him the third time, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest (φιλεις) thou me? (This time the Lord used the same word Peter had been using. He asks, ÒPeter, do you truly and sincerely love me?Ó) Peter was grieved because he said unto him the third time, Lovest (φιλεις) thou me? And he said unto him, Lord, thou knowest all things; thou knowest that I love (φιλω) thee. Jesus saith unto him, Feed my sheep.Ó

 

I take the words of the Lord Jesus to Peter for my text and my subject – ÒLovest Thou MeA more important question could not be considered. More than two thousand years have passed since our Lord first asked Peter this question. But it is just as searching and useful today as it was then. I pray that as I preach to you our Lord Jesus Himself will speak to every heart here by His Spirit and demand of each one an answer to this question — ÒLovest thou Me?Ó

 

Love is something everyone understands. It is a feeling, an emotion, a passion that God has implanted in the human nature. Everybody loves somebody, or something. No one is incapable of love. Today, I want to claim a place in your heart and mine for the Lord Jesus Christ, who alone is worthy of all the love of our hearts. I want each of us to love Him who loved us and gave Himself for us.

 

Give me your careful attention. This is not a matter of fanaticism, enthusiasm, or emotionalism. It is a subject that deserves the reasonable consideration of everyone who professes faith in Christ and claims to be a Christian. The Son of God asks, ÒLovest thou me?Ó

 

Proposition: The simple fact is — All true Christians love Christ; and any who do not love Christ are not Christians, are not believers, and are not saved.

 

Divisions: I want to show you five things from the Word of God that I trust will blessed of God to your souls.

  1. The LordÕs purpose in squeezing this confession of love from Peter was altogether gracious.
  2. It is the work of every under shepherd, the work of every Gospel preacher to feed the LordÕs sheep.
  3. Every true believer loves the Lord Jesus Christ.
  4. ÒWe love Him, because He first loved us.Ó
  5. Love for Christ, or the lack of it, can and should be known.

 

ChristÕs Purpose

 

First, I want to show you that our LordÕs purpose in squeezing this confession of love from Peter was altogether gracious. The test our Savior put to Peter, by which He would prove his sincerity to Him was love. The Lord Jesus did not ask, ÒHave you honored Me or obeyed Me, or what proofs can you give of performing your duties toward me, or do you live for me? He asked just one thing: ÒLovest thou Me?Ó

 

Many have imagined that our Savior asked Peter this question three times to remind him of the fact that he had denied Him three times; but there is no indication that that was the case. In fact, I am confident it was not our LordÕs intention here to aggravate PeterÕs sense of guilt and shame, but to prove to His dear disciple His grace toward him and his interest in that grace.

 

The well known and long proved love and grace of Christ Jesus to His elect inclines me to think that the Savior asked Peter this question (ÒLovest thou Me?Ó) three times that He might give His fallen child the opportunity to openly repeat his own assurance of his love for Christ three times. Having declared, with assurance, ÒLord, I truly do love You,Ó was the LordÕs way of making Peter understand that his threefold denial was no indication of his true character as a child of God. That was not really Peter, but sin dwelling in him (Romans 7:15-20). — The Two Natures of the believer!

 

(Romans 7:15-20) ÒFor that which I do I allow not: for what I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I. 16 If then I do that which I would not, I consent unto the law that it is good. 17 Now then it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me. 18 For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not. 19 For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do. 20 Now if I do that I would not, it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.Ó

 

Instead of being a display of our LordÕs displeasure, His appearance and conversation with Peter appears to me to have been one of those countless instances we have on record of the tenderness of our dear Savior to His people, by which He repeatedly shows us where sin abounds grace much more abounds!

á      When His chosen display great weakness, He manifests great grace!

á      When we fall, He lifts us up and in the sweet exercise of His grace to us enables us to show greater love to Him!

 

Our LordÕs gracious intention in squeezing this open confession of love from Peter is manifest when we realize that the very thing that terrifies the hypocrite comforts the true believer:The LordÕs omniscience! — ÒThou knowest all things!Ó

á      What I am by nature.

á      What I have done.

á      What You have done for me.

á      What You have made me by Your grace.

á      What I am in You!

ÒBy His knowledge shall my righteous Servant justify many!Ó — ÒThou knowest all things; Thou knowest that I love Thee!Ó

 

How very gracious our Savior is! He came to Peter in his utter despair, when in a state of great shame, and squeezed from him this firm confession of love for his Savior at a time when no one else could have done so. Not only that, the Lord Jesus further assured Peter that He had committed to him the care of His lambs and His sheep! It is as if the Savior had said, ÒYes, Peter, I am fully aware of your great love for Me, so much so that I trust to your care the people of My love!Ó

 

That brings me to my second pointÉ

 

Pastors Work

 

Second, it is the work of every under shepherd, the work of every Gospel preacher, the work of every pastor to feed the LordÕs sheep. Christ is the great Shepherd of the sheep. He is the great Pastor of His flock. It is Christ Himself who feeds His sheep. He is both the life and sustenance of all His fold. He is the Bread of Life and the Water of Life. His flesh is meat indeed; and His blood is drink indeed.

 

Yet, our dear Savior condescends to give His flock under-shepherds, under-pastors, according to His own heart to feed His people with knowledge and understanding (1 Peter 5:1-4).

 

(1 Peter 5:1-4) ÒThe elders which are among you I exhort, who am also an elder, and a witness of the sufferings of Christ, and also a partaker of the glory that shall be revealed: 2 Feed the flock of God which is among you, taking the oversight thereof, not by constraint, but willingly; not for filthy lucre, but of a ready mind; 3 Neither as being lords over GodÕs heritage, but being ensamples to the flock. 4 And when the chief Shepherd shall appear, ye shall receive a crown of glory that fadeth not away.Ó

 

á      The LordÕs faithful under-shepherds feed His lambs, His young ones gently.

á      These pastors feed the sheep of the fold and lead them.

á      The first and primary qualification of a pastor is love for Christ. — A manÕs abilities as a speaker and a leader, even if he possesses the great possible knowledge, are nothing without this love of the heart for Christ.

 

Believers Love

 

Third, I want you to see that every true believer loves the Lord Jesus Christ. Many are utterly confused about what a Christian is. Many foolishly imagine that anyone raised in a ÒChristian country,Ó or in a ÒChristian home,Ó or in a country under the influence of Christianity is a Christian. Many think that all who profess faith in Christ, all who have been baptized in the name of Christ, all who attend the worship of Christ are Christians. But it is not so. A Christian is a person whoÉ

  • Has been redeemed by the precious blood of Christ!
  • Has been born again by the Spirit of Christ!
  • Lives by faith in Christ!
  • Seeks in all things to follow, obey, and honor Christ!

But there is more. A Christian is a person who loves the Lord Jesus Christ. — If a person truly loves Christ, all is well, if not, all is wrong.

 

(John 21:15-17) ÒJesus saith to Simon Peter, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me more than these? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee. He saith unto him, Feed my lambs. 16 He saith to him again the second time, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee. He saith unto him, Feed my sheep. 17 He saith unto him the third time, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me? Peter was grieved because he said unto him the third time, Lovest thou me? And he said unto him, Lord, thou knowest all things; thou knowest that I love thee. Jesus saith unto him, Feed my sheep.Ó

 

(John 8:42) ÒJesus said unto them, If God were your Father, ye would love me: for I proceeded forth and came from God; neither came I of myself, but he sent me.Ó — No love to Christ, no sonship!

 

(1 Corinthians 16:22) ÒIf any man love not the Lord Jesus Christ, let him be Anathema Maranatha.Ó — No love to Christ, no salvation!

 

(Ephesians 6:24) ÒGrace be with all them that love our Lord Jesus Christ in sincerity. Amen.Ó — No love to Christ, no grace!

 

Love for Christ is the inseparable companion of saving faith (1 Corinthians 13:13; Galatians 5:6).

 

(1 Corinthians 13:13) ÒAnd now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.Ó

 

(Galatians 5:6) ÒFor in Jesus Christ neither circumcision availeth any thing, nor uncircumcision; but faith which worketh by love.Ó

 

Love cannot usurp nor take the place of faith. It is not love that unites the soul with Christ, but faith. It is not love that draws the waters of grace from the wells of salvation, but faith. It is not love that brings peace to the conscience, but faith. But wherever faith lives, love lives.

 

Love is the motive and mainspring of all work for Christ. — ÒProve now the sincerity of your love.Ó (2 Corinthians 8:7). Very little, if anything, is done for Christ from a sense of duty, or merely from a knowledge of right and wrong. The heart must be interested before the hands will be engaged.

 

Illustrations:

(1.) The care of a nurse and the love of a wife.

(2.) JacobÕs love for Rachel (Genesis 29:20).

 

Those who have done great things in the name of Christ were not men who merely held to a creed. They were men who loved a Person!

  • Duty tithes. Love gives!
  • Duty goes to church. Love comes to worship!
  • Duty reads the Word. Love seeks to understand it!
  • Duty will do some things for Christ. Loves lives for Christ!

 

Love for Christ is the common point of unity for all believers. We may have many differences with our brethren in other churches and denominations. But here we are one. All true Christians love Christ.

á        Love for Christ gives us a common meeting point.

á        Love for Christ gives us unity.

á        Love for Christ dissolves cultural, racial, and social differences (Colossians 3:11).

 

Love for Christ will be the distinguishing mark of all the redeemed in heaven. That multitude which no man can number will be of one mind. Old differences will be forgotten. Old carnal debates will be dropped. In heaven around the Throne of Grace, all will be of one mind and one heart. All will love Christ (Revelation 1:5-6).

 

(Revelation 1:5-6) ÒAnd from Jesus Christ, who is the faithful witness, and the first begotten of the dead, and the prince of the kings of the earth. Unto him that loved us, and washed us from our sins in his own blood, 6 And hath made us kings and priests unto God and his Father; to him be glory and dominion for ever and ever. Amen.Ó

 

The Cause

 

Would you know the secret of this love? What is it that causes saved sinners to love the Son of God? Turn with me to 1 John 4:19, and learn the secret. This is my fourth point. — ÒWe love Him because He first loved usNo son or daughter of Adam ever loved Christ by nature. ÒThe carnal mind is enmity against God.Ó But all who are born of God love Christ Òbecause He first loved us.Ó

 

1.    His love for us precedes our love for Him by eternity (Jeremiah 31:3).

 

(Jeremiah 31:3) ÒThe LORD hath appeared of old unto me, saying, Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee.Ó

 

2.    His love for us exceeds our love for Him by infinity (Romans 5:8; 1 John 3:16; 4:9-10) — ÒBehold, how he loved Him!Ó

 

(Romans 5:6-8) Ò For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. 7 For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. 8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.Ó

 

(1 John 3:16) ÒHereby perceive we the love of God, because he laid down his life for us: and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.Ó

 

(1 John 4:9-10) ÒIn this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him. 10 Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.Ó

 

3.    ChristÕs love for us is the cause of our love for Him. — ÒWe love Him because He first loved us!Ó

 

ÒWe love HimÉÓ — Because of who He is! — Because of what He has done for us!

á       Election!

á       Redemption!

á       Preservation!

á       Calling!

á       Regeneration!

á       Conversion!

á       Forgiveness!

á       Justification!

á       Freedom!

á       Life!

á       Keeping Us!

 

ÒWe love Him becauseÓ of all He is doing for us!

á      Providence!

á      Heavenly Intercession!

á      Daily Grace!

 

Should any believer be asked, ÒWhy do you love the Lord?Ó He has his own ÒbecauseÓ to give (Psalm 116:1-13).

 

(Psalms 116:1-13) ÒI love the LORD, because he hath heard my voice and my supplications. 2 Because he hath inclined his ear unto me, therefore will I call upon him as long as I live. 3 The sorrows of death compassed me, and the pains of hell gat hold upon me: I found trouble and sorrow. 4 Then called I upon the name of the LORD; O LORD, I beseech thee, deliver my soul. 5 Gracious is the LORD, and righteous; yea, our God is merciful. 6 The LORD preserveth the simple: I was brought low, and he helped me. 7 Return unto thy rest, O my soul; for the LORD hath dealt bountifully with thee. 8 For thou hast delivered my soul from death, mine eyes from tears, and my feet from falling. 9 I will walk before the LORD in the land of the living.Ó

 

Ò10 ¦ I believed, therefore have I spoken: I was greatly afflicted: 11 I said in my haste, All men are liars. 12 What shall I render unto the LORD for all his benefits toward me? 13 I will take the cup of salvation, and call upon the name of the LORD.Ó

 

Love Can Be Known

 

Yet, there are some who would have us to believe that this matter of love for Christ is something that cannot be known in this world. For exampleÉ

 

ÒTis a point I long to know,

Oft it causes anxious thought,

Do I love the Lord or no;

Am I His or am I not?Ó

So I want you to see in the last place that love for Christ or the lack of it, is something that can and should be known. After forty-two years of marriage, if I looked at my wife tonight and said,

 

ÒTis a point I long to know,

Oft it causes anxious thought,

Do I love my wife or no;

Am I hers or am I not?

 

We would have some problems! Love is not ambiguous. It is not something we have to guess about. And love for Christ is something that a person may and should know.

 

J. C. Ryle wrote, ÒHow do we know whether we love any person here upon earth? In what manner does love show itself between people in this world? Between husband and wife? Between parent and child? Between brother and sister? Between friend and friend? Let these questions be answered by common sense and observationÉand the knot before us is untied.Ó Then he gave eight simple marks by which love is known. By these eight things, if we will be honest with ourselves, every person here can answer the LordÕs question — ÒLovest thou Me?Ó If I love a personÉ.

1.      I like to think about him. He dwells in my heart (Ephesians 3:17).

2.      I like to hear about him.

 

Illustration: The Welsh lady who always went to hear the English preacher. ÒHe mentions Christ so often!Ó

 

 

3.      I like to read about him.

4.      I like to please him.

5.      I like his friends.

6.      I am jealous to promote and protect his name and honor.

7.      I like to talk to him.

8.      I like to be with him.

 

Application

 

Now, consider this question seriously. Examine it carefully. And answer it honestly — ÒLovest thou Me?Ó

 

ÒYea, Lord, Thou knowest all things, Thou knowest that I love Thee.Ó

á       Certainly, not as I should!

á       Certainly, not as I would!

á       But I do love Thee!

 

Do not I love Thee, O my Lord?

Behold my heart and see;

And turn each odious idol out

That dares to rival Thee.

 

Thou knowest I love Thee, dearest Lord;

But, oh, I long to soar

Far from the sphere of mortal joys,

And learn to love Thee more!

 

If you do not love Christ, it is because you do not know Christ. Your soul is in great danger! You are lost, a child of wrath, and the wrath of God is upon you. The only remedy for your lack of love is a revelation of Christ in you.

  • Attend the ministry of the Word.
  • Pray for the grace of God the Holy Spirit.
  • Believe on the name of the Lord Jesus Christ.

 

If you love Christ, donÕt ever be ashamed for others to see it and know it.

á       Witness for Him!

á       Live for Him!

á       Work for Him!

á       Devote yourself to Him! — If I love a person I am committed to that person.

 

We cannot love Christ too fully, live for Him too thoroughly, confess Him too boldly, or devote ourselves to Him to heartily. — To whom much is forgiven, the same loves much!

 

Illustration: The Indian Chief and the Worm

 

Amen.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Don Fortner

 

 

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